When my dad reached 65, the whole family, plus dog, went on holiday as his retirement gift.

We were a working class family from Manchester, and even though dad was a highly skilled engineer who had worked on missile systems and the world’s first supercomputer, he never received the kind of salary that bought international travel. That’s how much we valued the manufacturing sector in my dad’s day. Plus ça change.

So as a treat, we flew him to Edinburgh, carefully coordinated our journeys so one of us could meet him there in a rented people carrier, and then we spent the week touring The Highlands, as he’d always dreamed of.

We had rented a quiet cottage near Ft. William, settled in, had a few drinks, and went to bed.

That was 30th August 1997. I can be sure of that date because, in the small hours of the next morning, Princess Diana died in Paris.

I remember my mum waking me with the news. I got dressed, and stood in the cottage’s small lounge with my family, watching the rolling news for half an hour. It was sad.

And then we made sandwiches and set off on our holiday.

When the week was over, the cottage owners arrived to collect their keys, and were in tears, which stunned me. “What a terrible time to have a holiday”, they said, while we shuffled our feet and looked around awkwardly. “It must have been awful for you”, they said, and we looked at each other, puzzled, because we’d sort of… well, we hadn’t forgotten about it, exactly, but…

Diana and all her attendant dramas were, for me and my family, like a soap opera we didn’t watch. To be honest, we didn’t watch any soaps – we were a bookish, nerdy kinda family – but we definitely didn’t watch royal soaps.

Obviously we knew who the main cast-members were, but we didn’t care very much about them. We didn’t follow the details of who was shagging whom; didn’t care what Major or Butler or Celebrity Gal-Pal had sold what story to what tabloid; didn’t notice how tragic the eye makeup had become during any specific skiing holiday.

I felt no emotional connection to Diana. I wished her no harm whatsoever, but she didn’t enter my consciousness very much. I don’t buy tabloids, I tend to skip celebrity gossip, and I’m vaguely republican in a shrugging “does it really affect me” kinda way. To this day, I genuinely have to concentrate to remember which one of “the boys” is heir to the throne and which is only tangentially related to Charles. I know they’re called Harry and Wills, and I recognise their faces, but their names are interchangeable in my mind.

Diana was as important to me as, say, John Lithgow is to you. You are aware what he does, he seems quite nice, and you’d be surprised and saddened if he was killed by a roaming gang of photographers in a Parisian underpass one Saturday night. But that’s as far as it goes.

So the blubbering reaction of the holiday cottage landlords a week after her death perplexed me. I assumed they must be particularly ardent royalists, or have, to a crippling degree, some sort of congenital emotional diarrhoea. But this was just a taste of the ocean of histrionic slurry awaiting me as I drove back to Manchester again, on the day of her funeral.

The world had gone fucking mad.

Perhaps you still admit to being one of the lunatics, in which case you’re rare, and this blog will infuriate you. Sorry about that.

But I maintain you’d lost your collective minds. Literally millions of people were stood on the streets wailing and rending their clothes. I saw them actually tearing at themselves in grief, on streets in Eccles, for Christ’s sake. Lairy Mancunians called Gaz, Gaz and Gaz, with faces like a knuckle and knuckles like a ball-pein hammer, sobbing en-masse outside the Pig and Fetlock.

On arrival home, my neighbour, a man I scarcely knew, ran from his house in his underpants to throw his arms around me and cry, while I stood patiently holding my suitcase and wanting a wee. It was as if every single person in Britain had been given a puppy for a month, and then had to watch it being fed backwards, alive, through a bacon-slicer one morning, and I’d turned up just as the procedure was ending.

It bore no relationship whatsoever to the actual event, which in essence was: the pretty star of a popular reality show died in a car accident, and then show was unceremoniously cancelled while you were asleep.

Great for the press, though. Sold a lot of newspapers. The BBC’s Jennie Bond must’ve had a field day.

Could the insane coverage perhaps explain the insane public response? Hmmm, I wonder.

It’s possible I was always going to be immune from the cataclysm of weeping that descended over the nation, due to being a bit of a geeky cynic; or perhaps my family was like the guy in Day Of The Triffids, and our isolation from events during that critical week left us the only ones unaffected by the blinding meteor shower of Dead-Diana-Mania.

But today, I meet almost nobody who admits to being swept up by it all. Sad, sure. But hysterical? Nobody I meet was hysterical. Yet at the time, millions were.

Globally, 2.5 billion watched the funeral. Literally half of the people in Britain watched it, and almost a quarter of us had to take time off work due to the grief.

So surely at least one person in 10 would today admit to being part of the festival of sobbing. But no: practically everybody seems to remember their husband, wife or friends being overwhelmed, but they themselves were models of British dignity, detachment and reserve.

I report this because in my life I remember two instances of mass hysteria, and two instances of mass political protest. And, like a Venn Diagram, mass hysteria and mass political protest overlap in Brexit, right now.

The hysteria is Diana. The protest is Iraq. The cause, with Brexit, Iraq and Diana, is wildly inaccurate and demented press coverage.

54% of us supported the invasion of Iraq a month or so before it started. Today, 38% remember doing so. The war was built on lies, had no plan for what happened after victory, was widely predicted to be a disaster, stoked by loathsome right wing press, secretly promoted by even more loathsome American right-wing pressure groups, opposed by almost every expert, brought millions of protestors onto the streets, nearly broke the governing party, and revolted most of Europe… but scraped together a tiny public majority at one key moment, which then fell apart during implementation.

Good job we’ve learned our lesson, eh? Won’t make that mistake again.

Brexit feels like a cross between the manufactured consent of Iraq and the manufactured hysteria of Diana. And just like them both, Britain is already feeling embarrassed that it got so carried away and has been taken for such a fool. Our cynicism for Britain’s press knows no bounds 99% of the time, but come a war, come a celebrity death, or come a chance to feed our 1000-year-old suspicions about the bloody French, and we’ll lap up any bullshit The Daily Mail spoonfeeds us.

It’s time to slap ourselves in the face, realise the bollocks we’ve just fallen for, and stop this demented moment of collective hysteria. Cos tomorrow, you’ll deny you were ever taken in: but like Diana’s untimely death, Brexit is permanent.

20 thoughts on “This is hysterical

  1. I was having sex at the time of the announcement. Put me off my stroke for a moment. That is the extent of the impact it had on me. It also taught me to not leave the radio on if a banging might be in the offing.

  2. I had largely forgotten the incident until reading your blog. Like your family. The royals was as soap our family didn’t watch.

    Brexit was born of fuzzy logic, 50 years of pure 24 carat bullshit reporting, from straight bananas to banning British chocolate and not forgetting the delusion of Britain’s sense of itself as an empire.

    The people who voted for this and of course they are “THE PEOPLE” whose will cannot be disobeyed, so fuck everyone else, had not the slightest idea of what it was they were voting on.
    It was reported by google that there was a sudden explosion of activity on its search engine, as British people, probably leave voters, tried to find out what it exactly they had done on the day of the referendum.

    As the bullshit of the leave campaign was revealed to be just that: Bullshit. There is this hardcore element that is determined to push for no deal. The fear is that too many people think No deal, is some default option and the UK leaves with everything intact. But just as they had no idea what the EU was on the day. They clearly have no idea what no deal actually means for them.
    But they are so wrapped up in this delusion that the EU is trying to thwart them in some devious way, that they do not appreciate the danger to them. That so many politicians are just as clueless, wafting on about “leaving on WTO terms” even though the WTO has no dog in this race and has put forward no counter deal or in point of fact, no terms for the UK to leave on, is frightening.

    Brexit is a failure. All it has done is set the UK on fire. But the worst is still to come. Regardless of what happens, Uk revokes, UK knuckles down and signs the WA or opts for no deal. Its just the beginning of the Brexit fallout.

    there is worse to come.

  3. Great piece. I was working as a postie in Edinburgh at the time. My main memory is of a huge cheer going up in the sorting office when it was announced that we were all getting a day off for the funeral. We all loved the Princess of Hearts at that moment.

  4. The Sunday when the news broke about Diana, I was due at a family wedding anniversary celebration in the afternoon. I got up late, showered and got dressed, then went straight out to pick up some things for the party, completely oblivious. The looks I got walking round Tesco with a bottle of Moët that day…

  5. They cancelled a Scotland world cup qualifier scheduled for the day of her funeral which pissed me off immensely, even more so when they never cancelled the cricket that was being played in London on the day.

  6. My reaction also. If the ‘Royalty’ lived next door to me they undoubtedly would be served with an ASBO. As a Scot the quicker we get Indy and rid ourselves of them the better.

  7. I take it that the owners of the cottage you rented were English.
    Iraq was a war crime, hundreds of thousands of innocents were butchered to feed US automobiles, Diana dying was notable, but ultimately a car accident.
    I recall during the Falklands ‘war’ some wag painted ‘Malvinas’ over the Falklands Street sign in Glasgow’s West End.
    Scotland has been a separate country socially, economically, politically, and geographically since Thatcher.
    Your ‘Union’ is dead.
    From the FT:-

    “Scotland voted in 2014 to stay in the union of the UK. It is hard to imagine it would do the same in another referendum. Five years ago, unionism offered proud Scots two supplementary identities. They could be at once British and European. After Brexit it will be either/or. The 1707 union with England handed Scotland an international role as a partner in empire. Outside of the EU it will be cut off from the rest of Europe. Theresa May’s government insists that powers returned from Brussels will be hoarded at Westminster rather than shared with the Edinburgh parliament and other devolved administrations. The prime minister wants sharply to reduce immigration. Scotland wants more newcomers to oil the wheels of the economy. Why would that nation, with a political culture steeped in social market centrism, shackle itself to the rule of English nationalists?”
    Immediately following No Deal on the 12th April, we are leaving May’s ‘Precious Union’.
    It’s been good to know you guys.

  8. You must have found the only blubbering resident in Scotland.

    I am Scottish and was in Scotland at the time. Never met anyone greetin for her.

    We were puzzled over the post death public wailing and moaning in London.

    Could the owner of your cottage have been English? They are such a emotional race😉.
    I remember one MP crying his eyes out whrn Big Ben went silent for renovation.

    1. From memory they were from Spean Bridge or Fort Augustus – that area anyway. Definitely Scots (I know, it amazes me too)

  9. Nice piece and very observant of the hysteria phenomenon. Unfortunately *all* politics is about feelings not facts, and has always been thus. Brexit is bullshit but if people can be made to *feel* that it’s their shining destiny then victory is assured. And in the age of widespread and growing ignorance about any developments outside Albert Square, and the grotesquely cheap and easy ways to manipulate the feelings of the credulous on social media, anyone campaigning on any issue more complex than a 3-word slogan will always lose.
    PS I set off for a holiday in Scotland the day after Diana’s death, and worked very hard to avoid seeing any news about it. To this day I have never seen any footage of her funeral, or indeed any news after that first day the incident was reported.

  10. I didn’t really notice Diana’s death, because I didn’t really notice her life. I had and have no TV, and that was before the Internet spoon-feeding us enough outrage and hyperbolic emotion as would gag a python. But a few weeks after, I picked up a poll on “which professions are most hated by the public,” only to find “journalists” at the bottom. The reason “They killed Diana.” (This was in Germany).

    I did respond, of course. I pointed out, that I had written travel reports, written gentle and carefully researched articles for World of Interiors, done some politics years before, about science and technology, I even started my career writing about music and musicians (classical) … Stuff that few people read I guess, but I didn’t care…

    And my question was: Why did the same public that hated journalists buy all those crappy glossies and the übercrappy Bild Zeitung (sort of like the Sun) because they had shots like Diana naked in the south of France photographed from about 10 miles away?

    Bread and circuses, I guess. Disbursing bread to see the circus.

  11. I remember being woken up to buy an inflatable ET to leave as a tribute at Kensington palace.

  12. I get the post. Of course, here in the states people also went nuts. Di was, I am sure a good person, and God knows putting up with Charles was enough to drive anyone bonkers. I am truly sorry she died. But, she was a normal lady one with flaws and good points – just like the rest of us.

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